Ever go dine with a woman? Not your girlfriend. Just friend. Colleague. Office mate. Friend of a friend. Whatever. Used to when still schooling. Now, on working days, usually I went in group that more than 2 people.
So it happens one day that one female colleague ask me to accompany her for lunch. Hey, sure, I like lunch and I like to eat. She want to eat pasta. So, ok. Off we go to lunch.
Bla bla bla…eating and talking, when it comes to the paying the bill part, she ask me to pay for her meal. Now now, what the fuck is this? I didn’t agree to this. If I know I was gonna have to pay for some random bitch for a lunch, I better off to see prostitute or alternatively, dine alone.
Some poking, here and there, bla bla bla, pinjam dulu, etc. I pay for the food. Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not stingy. I’d buy you lunch. I don’t mind the price. But, I should consent/agree to it first before going to dine. I don’t like surprises and certainly I don’t like bitches who take advantage of people. If you want me to buy your lunch, ask me first. Damnit, I should leave her there alone.
When buying someone a meal, it should come from the heart. If you don’t feel like it, it cannot be forced. it’s like taking one in the arse or buttsex for short.
So, remember. You want people to pay for your meal, ask first. Or at least give something back like a quickie or blow job.